You’ve have probably been often bewildered by a question: why is it that smart, beautiful and attractive women are so often alone, while the greater part of ‘plains’ without any talents lead a happy married life with one husband for years?

Well, the answer has long been discovered by psychologists. The thing is that it’s not necessary at all to be beautiful and smart to make a man stay with you.

It’s just enough to learn how to manipulate him. To achieve this, you’ll need to discover his strong and weak points, playing artfully the peculiarities of his character – just like a talented cello player. Of course, men are different, but there some technique that will be equally efficient for everyone. A safe choice, for example, is alternating demonstration of your own force and weakness. Such amazing contrasts will make an eternal enigma out of you, and nothing is more attractive than mystery.

Another technique that will help you to forget about being abandoned is to become independent and strong. Not manlike though, but womanlike. Try not to demonstrate your love to him, do not repeat everyday: “You won’t leave me, will you? You cannot cease to love me. I won’t bear it!” Let him think, you’re more important for him, than he is for you.

The third rule says, “Live your own life!” Make a successful career, learn some foreign language. Make your life interesting, independent of any man in it. Men appreciate such

self-confident and successful women.

Rule #4: Learn to cook! Whatever may happen, men will always appreciate good cuisine. Make cooking a creative process: do not offer him banalities – use your fantasy and imagination. Learn to use aphrodisiac products: shrimps, mussels, oysters, honey, nuts, etc. Try some exotic cuisine.

Rule #5: Always admire your man – praise him both when you’re alone or in public (with friends, relatives). A word of estimation is what men usually lack.

Now, let us try to make a conclusion. What if you have been abandoned, despite following strictly all the above-mentioned? After all, could he not go away, just because he had fallen in love with someone else or ceased to love you? Remember: any man is just a man, with his right to search for happiness.

Try not to get stuck on the “will he leave me or will he not?” problem. If he is tired of you company, he’ll abandon you anyway: and no tricks can help. So, it’s no use speculating on it. If he leaves you, it’s he who will lose – lose such an extraordinary woman, the one he would never meet again!